I’m sure you’re with me on this one…
We want to celebrate Christmas and enjoy all this season has to offer, but we also want to help our kids focus on Christ and feel connected to Him, this time of year especially.
It’s definitely within our reach, but I hope no one ever replicates the mistake we made as a family a few years ago.
What I’m about to share is one of our most painful mistakes, and my wife probably wouldn’t be too enthralled to know that I’m sharing it.
But I’m going to write it anyways because it’s a powerful story that needs to be shared.
Years ago my wife, Gina, and I were watching our eighteen-month-old Miles hobble around the living room one Sunday afternoon. She mentioned to me that Miles was lying in her arms in the foyer at church that day and would pop his head up after she would ask “Where’s Jesus?”. He would then look up at the wall and point to the picture of Jesus.
From that point on we got into the routine of doing that at home – asking Miles where Jesus was, and then watching Miles excitedly point to the two separate pictures of Christ that were on the wall in our living room. It was one of our favorite things to do.
Trust me, it was adorable and it’s always struck me as really awesome that kids from such an early age can recognize and connect with Christ. (On a side note, I’ve always found it interesting that most kids are terrified of Santa Claus 😉 )
And now for the day I’ll never forget…
One day in December, very close to Christmas, I wanted to see Miles point to the pictures of Christ so I said “Miles, where’s Jesus?” I watched his face intently, anxiously waiting for his cute reaction.
But it never came.
The reaction I did see on his face was troubling.
Instead of a glowing smile, I saw a look of bewilderment and total confusion in his eyes and face.
He turned his head and looked across the room to the other wall where our second picture of Jesus normally hung. Miles always pointed to these pictures of Jesus so he intuitively knew where to look. However, the same confused look remained on his face.
I then realized why Miles was so confused, and when I understood why, I felt as if the wind had been knocked out of me.
You see, those two pictures of Christ were no longer on the wall. Both pictures of Jesus had been taken down.
Because it was Christmas. (I know it doesn’t make sense, so let me explain.)
It just so happened that earlier in the day we had pulled out our Christmas decorations. Out of habit, we took everything off our living room walls and put all of our Christmas decorations up.
We took down our two pictures of Christ and replaced them with pictures of…Santa.
For a second I was shocked. Then a second later a little numb. Then after that, a little mystified and embarrassed. Had we really taken down our only two pictures of Christ to put up Christmas decorations?
Can anyone say “wake-up call?”
Gina and I were trying to have Miles point to Christ, we wanted him to see and recognize Him, yet we had removed him entirely from view. I will never, ever, forget the confused look on my boy’s face.
I don’t ever want to be the cause of that again.
Now, I understand this was a pretty extreme case of removing Christ from Christmas, and this is not what most people do. At the same time, can you see that perhaps some of the things we do during Christmas, in reality, distract from the purpose of this incredible month of celebration?
The quote “Your actions are speaking so loud, I can’t hear what you’re saying” applies very well to our Christmas celebrations. We tell our children that Christmas is to celebrate Jesus’ birth as we took His pictures off the wall and replaced them with Santa.
As we celebrate the birth of Christ this season, please keep His picture on the wall – and make sure your kids can still point towards Him.