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7 Mistakes Returned Missionaries Make And How To Avoid Them

7 Mistakes Returned Missionaries Make And How To Avoid Them

7 Mistakes Returned Missionaries Make

And How To Avoid Them


The Mission is one of the best learning and growing experiences a young man or woman can have, it tests and tries us in ways we have never experienced before, but the hardest part of the mission? Coming home and adjusting to life as a Returned Missionary. Finding the right balance after the mission is extremely hard, and it is evident  by the ever increasing number of Returned Missionaries (RM’s) who struggle with adjusting. Here are 7 mistakes RM’s make and how to avoid them.

  • Healthy Habits

When my mom asked me what I wanted to do when I got home from my mission I told her, “I just want to go home and sleep for a week.” As I’ve talked with missionaries all over the world this is a common theme, missionaries work so hard that when we get home we just want to sleep.

But the problem is that many fail to get back into the habit of early to bed early to rise. As you stay up into the wee hours of the morning temptations are harder to resist because you are physically exhausted. My mission president said, “The Holy Ghost goes to bed at midnight.” Whereas he was joking, it is true that the more exhausted you are the less mental willpower you have to resist temptation.

The morning hours also set the tone for your day, getting up early will provide you with undisturbed time to do your healthy habits, like exercising or eating a real breakfast. And let’s be honest, you will look far better for the ladies (or the guys if you’re a sister) if you don’t look like a zombie who has had no sleep.

Part of Healthy Habits is budgeting your money, just like if you were a missionary and you ran out of money you had the unhealthy ramen diet, the same applies if you budget poorly as an RM. You can’t eat healthy if you’re broke, so budget!

  • Holy Habits

Holy Habits go hand and hand with Healthy Habits, just like your body will die without air and water, so will your spiritual life without prayer and scripture study. If you wake up early enough you will have time to study the scriptures, not just “read” them and you have time to commune with God, not just “say” your prayers. Don’t let your journal habit get cast aside either.

It is also vital to establish the habit of attending the temple. We are counseled to set personal goals for temple attendance; I try to go at least once a week. An easy way to do this I’ve found is to work at the temple. For information on how to work at the temple just ask your bishop.